How to Start a Conversation Effortlessly

artists_models.jpgHow to Start a Conversation Effortlessly - 5 Essential Tips
by Peter Murphy
 
If you are one of the millions who have difficulty in starting and participating in conversations, 
you should realize that life's successes and failures are closely 
related to the quality of your communication skills.
 
The ability to converse effortlessly with those you encounter is a critical component of all your 
personal and business relationships.
 
Good communication skills promote an image of self-confidence and intelligence. 
This is not to say that those people who find it hard to strike up a conversation are less intelligent.
 
They simply need to develop the appropriate skills. If you need to improve upon your 
communication skills, here are a few tips to help you get started down the right path.
 
You can learn how to start a conversation and converse with anybody, anytime.
 
1. In order to make interesting conversation, you must be interesting to others. 
Keeping yourself informed on current events, staying involved in activities, and keeping a 
mental list of good topics of discussion are excellent ways to break the ice. 
And a great tool to help you learn how to start a conversation with almost anybody.
 
2. Instead of focusing on how uncomfortable you feel, prepare yourself by thinking of the issues 
that interest you most and what you would like to discuss about a particular subject.
 
A little preparation will go a long way in enabling you to easily converse with others. 
Don't be afraid to ask questions.
 
In general, people like to talk about themselves and will respond favorably when asked simple, 
friendly questions. Learning how to start a conversation is not quite as difficult if you prepare in 
advance.
 
3. Make an effort to be a good listener when starting a conversation. 
After you make the initial effort, listen closely to the other person's response.
 
Often you'll find an invitation to continue the conversation if you listen carefully and respond 
accordingly. Balance is the key in any conversation.
 
Alternate between talking and listening to what the other person is saying and make additional 
comments as appropriate. 
Learning how to start a conversation is really just using good manners and showing a genuine 
interest in others.
 
4. Even if you find it extremely difficult, always greet those you encounter with a smile and look 
them directly in the eye.
 
It may be hard at first, but self-confidence is a learned skill and by acting confidently, 
you will gain new self-confidence.
 
Soon enough you will notice that it is not as hard to maintain eye contact and carry on a 
conversation. Act confidently and you will eventually become confident.
 
Developing self-confidence is an important part of learning how to start a conversation.
 
5. Try to remember small details about co-workers and acquaintances. 
Asking about a weekend plan or a relative is an excellent way to start a conversation and show 
genuine interest in those around you.
 
If you are interesting, attentive, and act with confidence you will appear to be the kind of person 
people like to have as a friend.
 
By practicing these new skills until they become second nature, you will increase your own 
self-esteem and learn how to start a conversation easily.
 
Learning how to start a conversation is really just a process of practicing your social skills until 
they become a habit.
 
Repetition and determination are the most important factors in building your level of confidence 
and conversing effortlessly in any situation.
 
You can change your life and now is the time to start.
 
Exceptional communication skills can be learned...
 
Find a proven formula and follow it. You will be amazed at how quickly you will progress.
 
Although some people fear otherwise, impressive communication skills can be learned by 
anyone of at least average intelligence. The difficulties you had in the past will not stop you 
making rapid progress now.
 
What matters is learning a proven approach you can use for the rest of your life.

Mir Anis marsiya write ups, qaseda,nazm and many more

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Majalis 19 Ramzan

Marsiya Writeups

943188l.gifJosh / Nasr Ghalib / Marsiya

SHAHSAWAAR E KARBALA …Hafeez* Jalandhari

Here is an urdu poem in glorification of Mazloom-e-Karbala

Karbala by Mir Babar Ali Anees 1803-1874,

fatmiya

Jab ran mein sarbaland Ali ka alam hua”

Sitam ki hogai yeh Inteha Rasool(SAWW) Kay Baad

MARSIA OF NASIM AMROHVI

MARSIA OF NAJM EFFENDI

MARSIA FAIZ AHMED FAIZ

JOSH MALIHABA’DI —(Shabbir Hasan Khan 1894 – 1982 popularly known as Josh)

Here are some of the verses in Janab Mesum’s Shaan

Here is an urdu poem in glorification of Mazloom-e-Karbala

Beemar-e-karbala, Aseer-e-baykhata ,…SYEDA ZAINAB ABBAS.

Kat kay bhi sab sey jo ooncha hey wo sar kis ka hay

Manqabat ~ Imam Ja’far asSadiq(as)

Maa.Mother……………

“Israel”se dou dou bateN “

Israel” ka “Lebanon” per Hamla

Sura’e Rahmaan ke manzoom tarjum’e ke chAnd bAnd: / Josh Malihabaadi

Allah Insaan Sey Fermata Hey

Mera pyaam dahshatgard ke naam

For Marsiya, Sauz and Salam from old collection.Please visit: http://alqaem.org/azadari

  • Marsiya – Raja Saheb Mahmoodabad
  • Turbate Beisheer Par Kahti Thi Maan Asghar Utho
  • Turbate Beisheer Par Kahti Thi Maan Asghar Utho
  • Manzar Bhopali – Salam e Hussain
  • Pyare Khan saheb Salam
  • Hasan Akbar Kamal – Salam
  • Rehan Azmi Marsiya
  • Nadim Raza Sarwar – Salam – Jo Ke Masroofe Salame ..
  • Sibte Jafar Saheb Marsiya and sauz
  • Noor Jahan – Marsiya – Mir Anees
  • Kabban Mirza
  • Marsia – Sahba Akhtar
  • Imam Hussain a.s. ke aqwaal aur khutba e Zainab
  • Souz O Salam – Syed Qamar Abbas Zaidi aur saathi
  • Aqwaal and Khutba
  • Marsiya
  • Nauha
  • Salam
  • Sauz  
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     Qaseeda Writeups 

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    QASEEDAH – 15th– Shaabaan

    HAR QAUM PUKAREGI HAMAREY HAIn HUSAIN

    MIRZA GHALIB – QASEEDAH / Sharah – Ghulam Rasool Meher

    Aey Falak Bakht Musaafir Hamein Too Yaad Aea

    Qita o Rubaiyaat……..Imam e Zaman (a.s)

    gul haai aqeedat haiN yeh ashAAr nahiN haiN”

    Josh – e – Mawaddat MANQABAT O SALAM)

    Ye sabr ka imtehaan, ya Imam-e-Zamaan

    Hazrat Abbas (A. S.) ki shuja’at ka bayaan By Mir Anees

    Gar aaj bhi nah aaye tou Maula kab aayeNge?

    Mohammad Ali Wafa ~Dono ki nighaon mein furkhat ke giley honge

    AAJ AAGHOSH-E-NARGIS MEIN KOUN AA GAYA

    AAP PAR DUROOD AUR SALAAM AY MERE IMAM

    DAST-E-NABI O SHER-E-KHUDA YA ALI MADAD

    Dukhtar-e-Mustafa, zawja-e-Murtaza

    Islam ki baqaa mawla Hussein hai.FATEMA AA GAYEE, FATEMA AA GAYEE

    Manqabat ~ Jab nasaara na maane nabi ko nabi

    Kis tarha se manzil-e-irfan-e-Haydar sochna

    Dushman bhi tumhara maan gaya

    Naam jab bhi liya aapka Askari

    Rukh kis taraf hai haq ki hawaa ka…ABBAS KE ALAM KA PHARERA BATAAYEGA

    Sada aayi fazaon se ubhar kar ya Ali maula

    Salaam use ke agar badshah kahein usko..Mirza Ghalib

    Manqabat ~ Salaamun alaykum alamdar aqa

    Manqabat ~ Wasila-e-Hasan-e-mujtaba se milta hai

    Manqabat ~ Imam Ja’far asSadiq(as)

    YE KISKI AAMAD PE AAJ KHUSHIYAAN MANAA RAHEY HAIN ZAMAANE WAALEY

    Manqabat ~ Zuhoor-e-asr hai ehad-e-payambar

    Hujjat se yeh duniya qayam hai Qayam

    maiN lakhT e jigar saaheb’e shamsheer’e do-sar hooN

    Kya lutf aa rahaa hai tire intezaar meN

    Ye sabr ka imtehaan, ya Imam-e-Zamaan

    DiloN ki tishnalabee yuuN bujha rahe haiN Husain

    QUATRAIN OF KHWAJA MOINUDDIN CHISTI

    Ya nabi salaam alaikum

    Yeh maula ali hai…………

    Ajjil ala zuhoor

    A Poem by Imam Ali (AS)

    Wiladat IMAM MOHAMMAD BAQAR (A.S)Qaseeda

    Nam se tere is doniya main koi nahi annjan

    Maira saqi saqia kausar saqia kausar bolo kon

    Jitna mango woh mujhe usse siwa deta hain

    ALI KE LAHJE MA ZAINB KA GUFTOOGU KARNA

    Jo Kibriya ki bat wohi hain nabi ki bat

    MIDHAT KEY SHER PARH KEY DILAWER KI HAN MAIN

    KYA SAMJH PAYEGI YEH DUNIYA KE KYA ABBAS HAI

    Aiye aiye aiye ya Ali

    Ya Mohammed aesi quwat app ney pai key bas

    PARHO DOORD HAMARY IMAM AATEY HAIN

    GHAIBAT KA HAI MOLA ZAMANA KAB TAK AKHEER AKHEER KAB TAK

    GULSHAN MAIN DIN-E-HAQ KEY KHILA CHODUAN GULAB

    EK NAYE ZAMANE MAIN INQALAB AYEGA

    Haq Ali Ali Maula Ali Ali Saem Chishti

    TULOOEY FIKR ” JOSH* MALIHABADI

    SERMON OF IMAM ALI (as)

    Moula Ali Ki Shan Main Likhne Walo collection

    Mushkil main kaam aati hy Mushkil kusha a.s ki baat

    dil ko Maula se “Jawaid” shikwa nahiN

    Q a s e e d a h Jawaid badauni

    “Khat jo Maula ke naam bheja hai”

    Shahadat’e Ameerul momineen (AS) { 21, Ramzaan }

    NAUHA Baraaey 19, Ramadhaan

    Iltemaas e dua
    Syed Mohamad Masoom Abidi